The Worst News EVER: The Conversation

IF YOU HAVE NOT READ THE PREVIOUS BLOG ENTRY, STOP NOW! READ The Worst News EVER BEFORE YOU CHECK THIS ONE OUT.

Now that you've read the previous blog entry, here's the version of the text conversation we had earlier this afternoon.

Key: 
A=Me, Alycia
G=Girl who is going to make my family's life hard

G: Hey hon...It's me...
A: Hey there, what's up?
G: Can you keep a secret?
A: Totally, what's up?
G:Your uncle and i are done...
A: Done, as in not together?
G: Well i have to let him know my decision in a few days...And just the way im feeling... I dont think its going to get better... I just dont want you and the whole rest of the family to hate me cause it didn't work out between us... I dont know what he is going to say about me..
A: Ok. Well, if you are sure about it then I guess thats what you have to do. You've thought about it for a while, right?
G: Yes i have... I think we have grown apart and we both want different things right now...
A: Ok. Well, I wish you the best then.
G: I do feel really bad cause i know im going to hurt him... Especially after everything he has gone through :(
G: Do you hate me? I dont want the family to hate me.
A: I don't hate you, I'm just worried for him.
A: But I guess what you are doing is the lesser of two evils. Its better to do it now than 5 years down the road.
G: I am too! This wasn't a very easy decision...
G: I still feel bad... He has already been comparing me to his ex wife lately... I dont need him to do anything drastic.
A: We'll keep an eye on him. Just make sure you wont change your mind later. That would make it worse for everybody.
G: Yeah...

So if you want, tell me what you think by leaving a comment. Who do you think the "bad guy" is here? Am I overreacting? Should I tell someone back home? I feel like I should, just so they can be there for my uncle. Please help me make sense of all this!